Remember that song? Just googled…..it’s by The Beach Boys (Classic!)
Anyway! I’m talking about good vibration. Let’s talk about good vibrations! Who doesn’t love to feel good! I know I do, but it is so easy to get out of those good feeling thoughts. Life pulls you in all directions, if you let it. How do you stop it I hear you ask, well it is through conscious living! And by the way – You won’t stop it, it’s part of being human! What you can do however is become more conscious of your thoughts, what you are thinking and being open and receptive to different ideas, for example other people’s ideas -Yes even if you don’t agree with them, you can gain better understanding of how that person works, for future reference and you also gain another perspective other than your own. -Growth baby!
After all, that’s what we are all here on earth to do isn’t it? To expand and grow.
It took years to realise…
You know it took till I was almost 40 to realise, I have a choice in life, to live how I wanted to live! Not just me but Joel also. It was mind blowing, it felt as though a lid had been taken off my life and unlimited opportunities were in front of me, all we had to do was choose and take action. This was so liberating! Scary as shit but liberating and so freaking exciting!
I crave this feeling, it is an excitement for life that had been taught and dare I say shamed out of me. Well I have now grown to love the fact that I can get excited about life again and is more than ok to be excited for it.
Good things happen when your in this feeling, people smile at you as you walk by, things go your way and the best part is – You FEEL GOOD!
Mantra
A saying of ours is ‘Everything is always working out for me! Because it really does! Even at times where it seemingly going wrong, it is just a reminder, there is a reason for this and then we can get excited wondering what it is because you know it will be better than what you were first expecting.
Mirror
So what’s all this got to do with good vibrations? Well, how you feel affects your vibration and what your putting out vibrationally, you will attract back – Just like a mirror!
If you want to know what’s going on internally within yourself, just take a look at what is happening in your life, even if you aren’t consciously aware of it. Then take a look at your beliefs!
Make feeling good your top priority!
Yep, you heard it! I’m talking about good vibration – Make feeling good, your top priority. No it is not selfish. Check out our Mindset Reset Method to help get the good thoughts rolling.
This is what popped up when Joel and I starting putting our happiness first instead of the kids. What terrible parent’s you are I hear. Well, I will tell you. It is the best decision we ever made because you know what, it’s ok to have something for yourself. And we have become better and happier parent’s for it. This was another expectation put on us too by the way. ( No names mentioned) but when the kids turned up we were told, it’s not about you anymore, it’s about the kids.
That is exactly what we did. We lived for the kids and work and the house, that was life, consumed by things we had to do, obligations and put what we wanted, to the side.
I’m talking about good vibration…What do you want?
This is a recipe for low vibration, that leads to sickness and depression. You must feed your soul, it is what keeps you alive! Life was never meant to be a struggle, it is meant to be enjoyed, so if your life isn’t bringing you joy right now, then re-evaluate things.
Ask yourself, what makes you happy, how do I want to live my life, what do I want to do more of, or even what do I want to do?!
I didn’t have a clue and it wasn’t until I sat and really thought about it and ALLOWED myself to think big and the possibilities available to me, then and only then did I know what it was I really wanted.
Boom, drop the mic, that’s it for today.
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